Learn to Do What Winners Do But Others Will Not

Written by Gary Simpson


If you want to be a winner you have to be prepared to develop a certain personal trait which others will not.

Are you prepared to do more to receive more? Or are you like most people who want consistently to do less and less, yet are mistakenly expecting more in return.

The notion of doing less to get more is a furphy. Oh, you can dream about winning and long for success as much as you like but it won't happen - not withoutrepparttar magic ingredients.

It is a universal law that in order to attract more into your life you have to render more service. Only by helping other people get what they want can you ever expect to get what you want. Confused? Let me explain:

Apart from having a definite purpose in life, that is, clearly defined goals, you must be prepared to work hard and never give up.

Token efforts give token rewards. Massive efforts create massive rewards. A massive effort requires one powerful personal trait - persistence.

Calvin Coolidge,repparttar 131148 30th President ofrepparttar 131149 United States of America, had this to say about persistence:

"Nothing inrepparttar 131150 world can takerepparttar 131151 place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not;repparttar 131152 world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent The slogan Press On has solved, and always will solve,repparttar 131153 problems ofrepparttar 131154 human race".

To illustraterepparttar 131155 power of persistence you might like to read a short book that I enjoyed, forrepparttar 131156 first time, in 1993. It was written by Peter B Kyne way back in 1921, yetrepparttar 131157 story it tells holds just as true today as it did inrepparttar 131158 year it was written. The book is called The Go-Getter.

Kyne tellsrepparttar 131159 story of one Bill Peck who went to extraordinary lengths to procure a certain blue vase. It is an endearing story which will take less than an hour of your time to read. Although it is a very old book, and may be difficult to get, you should be able to track it down using its unique identifier number, ISBN : 0-03-031400-3.

Life Is Easy, Isn't It?

Written by Jerry Lopper


"Life is easy" seems easily understood intellectually. Take what comes along with thanks and gratitude;repparttar circumstances and choices we make are perfect for us. All this feels right when said in a contemplative atmosphere. But after a few doses of life's reality, we have a difficult time bringing "life is easy" to daily application. Loved ones with health problems, layoffs and down-sizing, widespread terrorism, and random killings, all cause us to choke a bit onrepparttar 131146 phrase.

But is life easy? Well, it can be. Deepak Chopra reminds us that other natural beings simply are who they are. Birds do what birds do, as do fish, dogs, deer, etc. They may be very busy hunting food, rearing young, seeking safety, but they don't seem to be stressed by it all. Grass grows and dies back, only to grow again. Trees grow and spread, drop their seeds, shed their leaves, and grow them again. Don't we all aspire torepparttar 131147 easy life? Aren'trepparttar 131148 benefits of it self explanatory; peace, tranquility, harmony with our surroundings?

Then why is life hard for most of us? What prevents us from sustaining a life is easy belief? Some ofrepparttar 131149 harshness of life stems from our one-dimensional view of success; don't we tend to believe that to have more money, position, power, and friends is to succeed? So we compete for our piece ofrepparttar 131150 pie with everyone around us. Accumulating more, and then protecting it, is hard work. And once achieved, offers little satisfaction, only a temporal glow of achievement until we are compelled to launch another offensive of accumulation. There are flashes of insight when we recognize that this effort isn't satisfying, doesn't bring joy, and doesn't feel right as our purpose in life. But then we tend to fall back intorepparttar 131151 race and put our doubts behind us. Chasing a goal of accumulation is a lose-lose situation. Those who achieve it join those still struggling, both feeling unfulfilled.

Another reason that life seems so hard to us is that we try to controlrepparttar 131152 outcomes of our endeavors. We take ownership of a specific result, and then when something else shows up we aren't able to seerepparttar 131153 beauty of it because we feel that we've failed. Renowned author Elizabeth Kubler-Ross tells us "You won't always get what you want, but you always get what you need." Set your goals and intentions, and work toward them, but take what comes about as a perfect gift, justrepparttar 131154 result your soul requires.

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